Life in India has inspired me to commence a tale of the day train. We'll see how far it goes.
Monday
The neighborhood crazy pregnant lady stole our apartment keys today and is perhaps in cahoots with a mute man we thought was an ally. Currently the locks are being changed and we're figuring out a booby trap system to catch the bandits.
Tuesday
Today Ariel and I were initiated. The Indian women who also work with the nuns kidnapped us to the laundry roof and gave us both a pottu. Those are the "third eye" dots or marks most women and many men wear on their forehead symbolizing enlightenment, among many things. I thought this was only a Hindu tradition but then I saw lots of Indian Catholics with them. We learned today that India women also wear them simply for cosmetic purposes, like a beauty mark. The rest of the day they were telling us how beautiful we were.
Wednesday
One of the Indian workers showed us her wedding photos and I was swept away. This culture is endlessly rich. I don't understand Tamil, so her explanations were over my head but these are some things I gathered:
- the night before the wedding the women of the family gather and consume the brides hands and arms with these enchanting henna designs.
- the bride, decked out in fireworks colors, bangles, flowers, and a dangly twinkle crown, meets her groom at the temple, where a shirtless priest directs the ceremony.
- the ceremony involves the groom peeling away the skin of a coconut and tying the coconut to the bride's wrist. they also swap bananas at some point.
- things are burned and the groom rubs the colored ash on their foreheads.
- the parents or sibling tie yellow cords bearing gold charms and deities around their necks. they will wear these for the rest of their lives at all times.
- similar to wedding rings, the bride and groom then place toe rings on each other which the bride wears always as well.
It is amazing how much you can learn from 12 pictures, but I know I missed a lot in her explanation. Before, she labeled her marriage a "love marriage," which is different from most of the girls at work. For the others, their parents (or siblings if their parents passed away) select their husbands. Before I knew it we were discussing arranged marriage and their true love for their secret boyfriends as nonchalantly as our favorite ice cream flavors. It is their normal here.
My little world opens every day in this place.
Thursday
Today we are going to visit Auroville. This is from their website:
"Auroville wants to be a universal town where men and women of all countries are able to live in peace and progressive harmony above all creeds, all politics and all nationalities. The purpose of Auroville is to realise human unity."
Auroville Charter
- Auroville belongs to nobody in particular.
Auroville belongs to humanity as a whole.
But to live in Auroville, one must be a willing servitor of the Divine Consciousness.
- Auroville will be the place of an unending education,
of constant progress, and a youth that never ages.
- Auroville wants to be the bridge between the past and the future. Taking advantage of all discoveries from without and from within, Auroville will boldly spring towards future realisations.
- Auroville will be a site of material and spiritual researches for a living embodiment of an actual Human Unity.
I think that's enough explanation for now.